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Gifts in Wills

Help secure the future of Oakhaven Hospice

Nurse giving a hug to a lady who is smiling. This is hospice care

Leave a gift in your will and help protect hospice care for all, for now, forever.

Leaving a gift in your will to Oakhaven

Last year, 1 in 5 of our patients was cared for thanks to gifts in wills. The government provides approximately 11% of our funding - the rest comes from people like you.

Every gift, no matter its size, makes a difference. It's your generosity that helps to provide specialist care for those with life-limiting illnesses.

By making a gift in your will to Oakhaven, your legacy will help local families in the future to be supported from diagnosis, through end of life and in bereavement for those that remain.

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How do I leave a gift to Oakhaven? Expand

To leave a gift in your will to Oakhaven Hospice you'll need to include our name, address and registered charity number.

  • Name: The Oakhaven Trust
  • Address: Lower Pennington Lane, Lymington SO41 8ZZ
  • Registered charity number: 900215

As an independent charity, only 11% of our costs are covered by the government/NHS. We must find around £8 million each year to fund our services.

Your gift will directly benefit everyone in our New Forest, Totton and Waterside communities needing to access end-of-life care services.

What types of gifts can I leave? Expand

There are three types of gift (called a "legacy") you can leave to us:

Residuary Legacy – this will leave Oakhaven a gift of the remainder of your estate, or a percentage, after all other legacies and any debts cleared. Residuary legacies keep pace with inflation and are an effective way to divide the value of an estate between a number of people and causes.

Pecuniary Legacy – this will leave a fixed sum of money in your will to Oakhaven. It is worth noting that pecuniary gifts can devalue over time due to inflation, so it is worth reviewing your will regularly.

Specific Legacy – this will leave property or specific items in your will to Oakhaven, such as art, jewellery, furniture or stocks and shares.

How do I write a will? Expand

Many people put off writing their will as they expect it to be complicated. However, in reality, it is relatively simple and a legal adviser can guide you through the process.

Before you begin, you will need to:

  • Make a list of everything you own – including property, money, shares, investments, life insurance policies, and all your valuables and possessions
  • Work out the value of these assets
  • Decide who should benefit from your estate, for example, family, friends, charities
  • Decide who to appoint as your executor(s), i.e. the people who will administer your estate
I already have a will, how do I change it to leave a gift to you? Expand

If you want to leave a gift but you’ve already made a will, that’s no problem – there are a couple of ways you can change it.

1. Write a new will

The simplest way is to write a new will. Once written, any wills made by that person in the past become void. In fact, most wills will start by reciting that you’re writing a will and that you’re revoking previous wills.

Please note Oakhaven cannot provide legal advice or write your will.

2. Codicils

The other way is to write a codicil, which is a document used to make changes to an existing will.

It’s used as a way to make simple amendments like adding a charity, changing a gift amount or adding an executor. This is all quite straightforward, but problems can occur if you ever want to cancel the will in the future.

When you cancel a will that contains a codicil, the codicil does not get canceled automatically, so when you write a new will it can create inconsistencies and legal problems. To avoid this, make sure that any new will clearly states that you are revoking all wills and codicils previously made.

You can write a new will or write a codicil with a professional advisor. Find a solicitor or will-writer in your area using this postcode search, or take a look at these useful links for further information.

I'm not wealthy, is it worth me writing a will? Expand

Making a will is the best way to ensure that your wishes are carried out after your death and your property, money and possessions go to the people and organisations that matter to you.

You don't need to be rich to leave a gift to charity in your will. Leaving just a small percentage (called a residuary legacy) to us in your will goes a long way. People often find they can afford to be more generous in a will than in their lifetime.

No matter the size or amount, your gift makes a difference. Your support could fund a meal on our inpatient unit, a series of bereavement support sessions, or for a nurse to be there for a family overnight. Thank you.

What about Inheritance Tax? Expand

There’s usually no tax to pay on gifts left to charity as your donation will be taken off the value of your estate before Inheritance Tax is calculated. This means that a gift for Oakhaven's local hospice care can reduce the total amount of Inheritance Tax due.

Please note that Oakhaven is not a financial planner. We strongly recommend you speak to your solicitor, financial planner or visit the HMRC website for more information about Inheritance Tax.

I've left a gift to Oakhaven in my will, but my circumstances have changed. Can I change my mind? Expand

Yes, you can. A will is a very personal document that reflects your final wishes. You're free to change your mind at any time. You do not need to tell us if you have changed your mind, but if you do feel comfortable telling us, it can help us plan for the future.

Can I have a say in how you use my gift? Expand

We understand that you may want to leave a gift to a particular service close to your heart - and you're entitled to do this. However, we encourage gifts left to us to be unrestricted. We're then free to use the money where it is most needed at the time.

I need more information, is there someone I can talk to? Expand

Yes, we would be delighted to talk through your questions. Please call us on 01590 677773 and a member of our team will be happy to help.

All conversations will be kept confidential and please do remember that, should your circumstances change, your intended gift is not legally binding.

Please bear in mind that Oakhaven cannot provide legal advice. If this is something you would like, please consult a solicitor.

Get in touch

If you have any questions about leaving a gift in your will, we’re here to help. Contact us at

📞 01590 677773 or
📧 legacy@oakhavenhospice.co.uk

Whether you're considering leaving a gift in your will or have already pledged one, we'd love to hear from you.

Click to let us know
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Oakhaven is here because of the legacy of Phoebe Coates

The land on which Oakhaven Hospice sits was once the home of Phoebe and John Coates. It was gifted to the charity so that Oakhaven could be established and so that people at the end of life would receive specialist care in a safe and comfortable environment. Without their vision and generosity, we simply wouldn’t be here.

Phoebe's legacy has helped thousands of families across our community during the most difficult of times, touching lives throughout the New Forest, Totton and Waterside. Oakhaven has grown to meet demand, and supports patients and their families throughout our community in so many ways. We hope to be able to continue making every moment matter for many years to come.

John and Phoebe Coates

How leaving a gift in your will to Oakhaven Hospice helps

By leaving a gift in your will to Oakhaven, you ensure that our specialist teams can continue offering a lifeline of support, including:

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Inpatient Unit care

Providing expert, round-the-clock care for people on our 10-bed inpatient unit in our hospice building in Lymington.

In 2023/24, the inpatient unit team:

  • Supported 221 admissions
  • Cared for each patient for an average of 11.4 days
  • Worked hard to ensure the average waiting time from referral to admission was just 1.3 days
Clinical Nurse Specialists at Oakhaven

Expert nursing care at home

Our Clinical Nurse Specialists and Community Registered Nurses support patients and their families at home, enabling them to remain in familiar and comfortable surroundings. They also visit care homes and Lymington New Forest Hospital.

In 2023/24, the Oakhaven community team:

  • Received 723 referrals
  • Made over 2,000 home visits
  • Supported 6,201 patients with specialist care
  • Took over 15,700 telephone calls via our dedicated Patient Support Telephone line
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Patient and family support

Counselling, group sessions, and one-to-one support to help patients and families navigate the complex emotions of end-of-life situations and adjust to grief after a loved one has died.

In 2023/24, the Oakhaven Patient and Family Support team:

  • Supported around 300 referrals for counselling or bereavement support services
  • Supported 2,073 adults and children
  • Provided spiritual and pastoral care for patients and their loved ones
People talking at Oakhaven's Day Hospice

Outpatient care at our Day Hospice

Oakhaven's Day Hospice enables patients to meet with other patients in a safe and friendly environment. It offers practical support and the chance to take some time out and enjoy a delicious lunch with others.

In 2023/24, Oakhaven:

  • Welcomed 1,445 attendees at our Day Hospice
  • Enabled patients to access therapies, counselling and social activities
  • Saw 106 people in outpatient appointments with our Clinical Nurse Specialists
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Wellbeing support at the Coates Centre

Oakhaven Wellbeing supports patients, their families and welcomes everyone in our communities who is living with a life-limiting condition, caring for someone or coming to terms with a bereavement.

In 2023/24, Oakhaven Wellbeing:

  • Welcomed 5,636 people to the Coates Centre
  • Provided activities including arts and crafts, mindfulness, meditation, singing and gentle exercise
  • Hosted support groups for people with life-limiting conditions and bereavement

Making a will is important

For all of us, the future is uncertain, and none of us know how or when we will die, but planning for the future is an important part of life. Making a will is important as it gives you peace of mind, knowing that your wishes will be respected. Anyone who has experienced a life change, such as buying property, getting married or having children or grandchildren, should consider writing or updating their will.

After providing for family and friends, choosing to make a gift in your will to Oakhaven Hospice will help us in the future to support and care for those whose lives have been impacted by a life-limiting illness. Leaving a lasting legacy to Oakhaven in this way ensures that we will be able to continue caring for those in our community when they need us most.

Leaving a gift in your will can be a very tax-efficient way of giving to charity and supporting your community.

How your gift in a will can help us

"I'm proud to have pledged a gift in my will for Oakhaven"

"Oakhaven Hospice was such a welcoming and inclusive place - we instantly felt like part of the family there. Oakhaven provided the peace and calm that both Steve and I needed, and with the support of all the incredible nurses, we were able to make the most of every moment we had together in those final weeks.

"If we all leave a gift in our will, no matter how big or small, our support will secure the future of the Hospice."

Read Steve and Rob's story
Steve and Rob on their wedding day

"At a time when I was in a very dark place, feeling broken-hearted and isolated, past memories of such happy times rushing through my mind, the future just a blur; I had no vision of how I would ever come to terms with the loss of my wonderful husband.

Oakhaven gently and patiently guided me through difficult days: the chaplain, one-to-one counselling, support groups, meeting other people and making new friends. The volunteers were always so welcoming and warm-hearted. I am exceedingly grateful for the palliative care they provided for my husband in a beautiful and peaceful setting as well as the continued support to help me look to the future with renewed hope."

"A personal legacy to Oakhaven Hospice is very poignant, not only to those who are ill but also to those that are bereaved. As its name implies, it is a haven, a place of comfort, a place where family and friends can meet, a place to laugh and smile with their loved ones, as well as a place to pay their last respects in a kind, respectful and caring environment.

A legacy is humbling and priceless - to help others is a gift in itself."

Get in touch

If you have any questions about leaving a gift in your will, we’re here to help.

Contact us at 📞 01590 677773 or 📧 legacy@oakhavenhospice.co.uk

Whether you're considering leaving a gift in your will or have already pledged one, we'd love to hear from you.

Click to let us know
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Leaving a legacy to Oakhaven will ensure we can continue to provide much-needed support in years to come, helping make every moment matter for those at end of life, whilst supporting their loved ones.

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