Gifts in Wills
Help secure the future of Oakhaven Hospice

Leave a gift in your will and help protect hospice care for all, for now, forever.
Leaving a gift in your will to Oakhaven
Last year, 1 in 5 of our patients was cared for thanks to gifts in wills. The government provides approximately 11% of our funding - the rest comes from people like you.
Every gift, no matter its size, makes a difference. It's your generosity that helps to provide specialist care for those with life-limiting illnesses.
By making a gift in your will to Oakhaven, your legacy will help local families in the future to be supported from diagnosis, through end of life and in bereavement for those that remain.

Get in touch
If you have any questions about leaving a gift in your will, we’re here to help. Contact us at
📞 01590 677773 or
📧 legacy@oakhavenhospice.co.uk
Whether you're considering leaving a gift in your will or have already pledged one, we'd love to hear from you.
Oakhaven is here because of the legacy of Phoebe Coates
The land on which Oakhaven Hospice sits was once the home of Phoebe and John Coates. It was gifted to the charity so that Oakhaven could be established and so that people at the end of life would receive specialist care in a safe and comfortable environment. Without their vision and generosity, we simply wouldn’t be here.
Phoebe's legacy has helped thousands of families across our community during the most difficult of times, touching lives throughout the New Forest, Totton and Waterside. Oakhaven has grown to meet demand, and supports patients and their families throughout our community in so many ways. We hope to be able to continue making every moment matter for many years to come.

How leaving a gift in your will to Oakhaven Hospice helps
By leaving a gift in your will to Oakhaven, you ensure that our specialist teams can continue offering a lifeline of support, including:
Inpatient Unit care
Providing expert, round-the-clock care for people on our 10-bed inpatient unit in our hospice building in Lymington.
In 2023/24, the inpatient unit team:
- Supported 221 admissions
- Cared for each patient for an average of 11.4 days
- Worked hard to ensure the average waiting time from referral to admission was just 1.3 days
Expert nursing care at home
Our Clinical Nurse Specialists and Community Registered Nurses support patients and their families at home, enabling them to remain in familiar and comfortable surroundings. They also visit care homes and Lymington New Forest Hospital.
In 2023/24, the Oakhaven community team:
- Received 723 referrals
- Made over 2,000 home visits
- Supported 6,201 patients with specialist care
- Took over 15,700 telephone calls via our dedicated Patient Support Telephone line
Patient and family support
Counselling, group sessions, and one-to-one support to help patients and families navigate the complex emotions of end-of-life situations and adjust to grief after a loved one has died.
In 2023/24, the Oakhaven Patient and Family Support team:
- Supported around 300 referrals for counselling or bereavement support services
- Supported 2,073 adults and children
- Provided spiritual and pastoral care for patients and their loved ones
Outpatient care at our Day Hospice
Oakhaven's Day Hospice enables patients to meet with other patients in a safe and friendly environment. It offers practical support and the chance to take some time out and enjoy a delicious lunch with others.
In 2023/24, Oakhaven:
- Welcomed 1,445 attendees at our Day Hospice
- Enabled patients to access therapies, counselling and social activities
- Saw 106 people in outpatient appointments with our Clinical Nurse Specialists
Wellbeing support at the Coates Centre
Oakhaven Wellbeing supports patients, their families and welcomes everyone in our communities who is living with a life-limiting condition, caring for someone or coming to terms with a bereavement.
In 2023/24, Oakhaven Wellbeing:
- Welcomed 5,636 people to the Coates Centre
- Provided activities including arts and crafts, mindfulness, meditation, singing and gentle exercise
- Hosted support groups for people with life-limiting conditions and bereavement
Making a will is important
For all of us, the future is uncertain, and none of us know how or when we will die, but planning for the future is an important part of life. Making a will is important as it gives you peace of mind, knowing that your wishes will be respected. Anyone who has experienced a life change, such as buying property, getting married or having children or grandchildren, should consider writing or updating their will.
After providing for family and friends, choosing to make a gift in your will to Oakhaven Hospice will help us in the future to support and care for those whose lives have been impacted by a life-limiting illness. Leaving a lasting legacy to Oakhaven in this way ensures that we will be able to continue caring for those in our community when they need us most.
Leaving a gift in your will can be a very tax-efficient way of giving to charity and supporting your community.

"I'm proud to have pledged a gift in my will for Oakhaven"
"Oakhaven Hospice was such a welcoming and inclusive place - we instantly felt like part of the family there. Oakhaven provided the peace and calm that both Steve and I needed, and with the support of all the incredible nurses, we were able to make the most of every moment we had together in those final weeks.
"If we all leave a gift in our will, no matter how big or small, our support will secure the future of the Hospice."
"At a time when I was in a very dark place, feeling broken-hearted and isolated, past memories of such happy times rushing through my mind, the future just a blur; I had no vision of how I would ever come to terms with the loss of my wonderful husband.
Oakhaven gently and patiently guided me through difficult days: the chaplain, one-to-one counselling, support groups, meeting other people and making new friends. The volunteers were always so welcoming and warm-hearted. I am exceedingly grateful for the palliative care they provided for my husband in a beautiful and peaceful setting as well as the continued support to help me look to the future with renewed hope."
"A personal legacy to Oakhaven Hospice is very poignant, not only to those who are ill but also to those that are bereaved. As its name implies, it is a haven, a place of comfort, a place where family and friends can meet, a place to laugh and smile with their loved ones, as well as a place to pay their last respects in a kind, respectful and caring environment.
A legacy is humbling and priceless - to help others is a gift in itself."
Get in touch
If you have any questions about leaving a gift in your will, we’re here to help.
Contact us at 📞 01590 677773 or 📧 legacy@oakhavenhospice.co.uk
Whether you're considering leaving a gift in your will or have already pledged one, we'd love to hear from you.